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12 Apr, 2008

Happy Birthday to Me

Posted by: typealice In: Daily| Gillian


Well, it’s my 28th birthday. I’m not thrilled about turning this age, but at least we have a good day planned. Clive woke up with Ash for an hour at 5am and another hour at 7:30am so that I could have a (mostly) uninterrupted sleep. I usually take the 5 or 6am shift, so it was wonderful not having to wake up that early. When I got up I noticed a sheet of paper on the floor; it ended up being a treasure hunt to my present. First clue was in the glove compartment of the car, then the storage room, under the kitchen sink, the baby’s closet and then I found a brand new sewing machine in our closet. Yay! I’ve been using my beloved 20 year old Singer machine for years. I have always been hesitant to use new machines, but I’ve already started sewing a sling and it’s glorious and so much more quiet!

In a couple of hours we’re going to Ash’s first “swimming lesson” (the only thing that could make it better was if I could go down the water slides), then I have an hour-long massage. We’re going out for Indian food around 5pm and then back home for ice cream cake with my sister and her boyfriend.

This is my first birthday since Ash was born (obviously) and since becoming a mom my perception of Birth Days has changed dramatically. Now the reality of my own mother going through 44 hours of labour, having a record-breaking episiotomy (for that hospital) and pushing me out means so much more than it did before. I feel like she should be celebrated, not me. I see her tomorrow, and she will bring me carrot cake!

6 Responses to "Happy Birthday to Me"

1 | Liz

April 12th, 2008 at 11:59 am

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Happy birthday, Gillian! I know what you mean about feeling grateful to your mother; although i don’t have kids, I make it a point every year on my birthday to thank my mother for giving birth to me. :)

2 | Adam

April 12th, 2008 at 12:03 pm

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Treasure hunts are the best.
Happy Birthday young lady.

3 | Ali

April 13th, 2008 at 12:55 pm

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Happy birthday!!

4 | Jen

April 13th, 2008 at 6:08 pm

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hey I had no idea! Happy birthday! I hope you have a lovely day. Treasure hunts rocks.

5 | Michelle

April 13th, 2008 at 6:50 pm

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Wow, I’m a dumbass. I read this entry and thought “happy birthday!” but didn’t actually leave a comment. So, a belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you!!! :-) Sorry ’bout that!!!!

6 | kristen

April 14th, 2008 at 5:36 am

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hbd!

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I'm Gillian, a Nova Scotian woman with a son named Ash (born 09/07) and a wife to Clive. I am what they call an Attachment Parent; I breastfeed, wear my baby as much as possible, cosleep, cloth diaper and practice elimination communication. I have very strong parenting views. We are raising Ash as an organic vegetarian. I care about the environment and do what I can to reduce my carbon footprint and set a good example for others, especially my child.

I'm proudly drug free, but can't say that I have always been. My early 20s were comprised mostly of travelling- I've lived and worked everywhere from West Africa to the Caribbean. I currently run AP Mamas, a site dedicated to attachment parenting and G Slings, my sustainable sling company.