typealice

08 Jun, 2008

Wedding Food

Posted by: typealice In: Wedding

When Clive and I decided on a cottage wedding, we basically signed up for barbecue and all the fixin’s as our menu. Outside of breakfast food, barbecue is my favorite thing to eat. I LOVE veggie dogs with all the toppings (ketchup, mustard, green relish, rhubarb relish and cheeze whiz). I love shish kabob’d vegetables with lots of garlic butter. I still lust after the smell of barbecued chicken even though it’s been nearly ten years since I’ve eaten chicken (and even longer since I’ve actually had barbecued chicken).

My family and I are going to prepare the food on the Friday and Saturday before the wedding (being held on Sunday, July 27). For the meal, there will be a potato salad, a curry pasta salad, a carrot/raisin salad, mixed green salad, hamburgers and marinated portabella burgers with goat cheese. Yum, yum, yum.

Immediately after the ceremony, we’re bringing everyone together to do a champagne and/or punch toast. Because we’re not doing a formal sitdown dinner, this will be when people have the chance to speak if they want to. It also allows us to tell our guests what the rest of the day holds (hopefully they’ve brought their swimsuits!). Along with the punch we’ll offer a few aps, cheese ball and crackers, olives & pickles, and these, if they’re any good. I first saw these in my Spring 2005 issue of Martha Stewart Weddings and liked how fancy and delicious they looked for the one fancy part of our wedding. I also wonder if these would be delicious… but I may be getting in over my head because I have to bake six different kinds of cookies before the wedding as well for our “cookie bar”.

Oh, and we’re having a formal wedding cake too.

The ceremony is at 1pm, appetizers, punch and champagne at 1:30ish, meal at 3, cake at 5ish and if people want to stick around into the evening they can. We’re having a bon fire and will offer even MORE food- hot dogs (hopefully we can find some higher quality locally made weiners) and marshmallows.

I doubt our guests will go hungry.

9 Responses to "Wedding Food"

1 | kelly

June 9th, 2008 at 1:25 am

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in response to your comment: it is Lovely and ethereal from confessions of a pioneer woman.

2 | Michelle

June 9th, 2008 at 6:22 pm

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Your wedding is going to be so fabulous! :-) Oh, and anything Martha turns out well…

3 | L

June 10th, 2008 at 1:12 am

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today i went to find something to wear for your wedding! the whole time i kept remembering all these funny things we did in waterloo. see you soon! xo

4 | Kris

June 10th, 2008 at 5:08 pm

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Your wedding sounds like a lot of fun! And it sounds like your guests will be quite full and happy. :) I can’t wait for pictures!

5 | BipolarBunny

June 12th, 2008 at 7:29 pm

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The food sounds like it will be amazing. I think I might try making the flavored breadsticks soon. You’re gonna be a married woman in 6 weeks. Good luck and best wishes to both of you!

6 | arissa

June 12th, 2008 at 7:53 pm

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well, apparently she still likes to keep up with your blog:

I am home catching up on family time. I was reading some lunatics talking about how I don’t post enough about my daughter online. It’s weird, just because some parents are only interested in exploiting their children online and the only relationship they feel worth sharing is via a media context, they wouldn’t try and pressure other parents into it. I have very little in the way of a private life and she’s worth more to me than a photo op.

7 | typealice

June 13th, 2008 at 1:50 am

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I read that too, but then wondered if she was talking about me (i’m 100% positive she reads this blog, and if she doesn’t, she has other people who read it and tell her what’s been said), because I never said she doesn’t post enough about her daughter- just that she basically denies her daughter’s existance. Is she embarassed of being a mom? It seems that way. I guess she’s too cool for that.

But the word “lunatic” makes me think she is, in fact, talking about me. Because according to savagerabbit anyway, I’m “delusional.” Delusional how, exactly? I don’t know. It’s all there in black and white, SHE was the one who deleted my wiki page, even though she denied it.

I thought about it, and do not believe I’m exploiting my son. I post pictures and entries about him as a journal for myself and the other big part is so that family who lives far away from us can keep up with his life. They rely on me to do that and if I stopped they’d take it personally and frankly, I’m not willing to do that. I love sharing his life with his grandparents and aunts and uncles and everyone else. It’s never for anonymous internet folk. And I only share what I want to, there’s a lot more that I don’t. So, no, I am not exploiting my son. There are people who post way more out there about their family and make money because of it (good on them for that, too). Meh. I don’t let her uninformed, completely worthless opinion bother me. She has no fucking idea what it means to be a good parent, one who their child can count on to be there and stand by them. I have absolutely no respect for her.

8 | arissa

June 13th, 2008 at 6:48 pm

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I was’t expecting such a long reply from you, and I’m sorry if it brought up bad feelings in any way. I do want to say that I’ve been following your blog on/off since Gambia and you absolutely do not exploit your son. He is obviously the biggest part of your life (now interspersed with wedding planning); what else are you going to write about? She has no right to trash your, or anyone else’s, parenting skills.

Anyway, enough of that. I wish you the best on your upcoming wedding! I’m sure it’ll be absolutely perfect.

9 | typealice

June 14th, 2008 at 7:41 am

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Haha, I didn’t mean for my response to be so long! :)

I guess what you say is right, if she has no right to trash people’s parenting skills, I shouldn’t really say anything either. But oh well. :)

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I'm Gillian, a Nova Scotian woman with a son named Ash (born 09/07) and a wife to Clive. I am what they call an Attachment Parent; I breastfeed, wear my baby as much as possible, cosleep, cloth diaper and practice elimination communication. I have very strong parenting views. We are raising Ash as an organic vegetarian. I care about the environment and do what I can to reduce my carbon footprint and set a good example for others, especially my child.

I'm proudly drug free, but can't say that I have always been. My early 20s were comprised mostly of travelling- I've lived and worked everywhere from West Africa to the Caribbean. I currently run AP Mamas, a site dedicated to attachment parenting and G Slings, my sustainable sling company.