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28 Nov, 2008

My son is so smart

Posted by: typealice In: Baby|Family|Gillian

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Seriously. I’m constantly amazed at how much he learns every single day. It’s by far the most facinating thing I’ve ever seen in my life. I’m so proud of him. I wish I could shout from the rooftops about how magnificent this little guy is.

He loves snowmen for some reason. So now he points them out to me by saying, “no-meh.” I just love it.

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So this weekend is our big move. We’ve been slowly moving stuff over to the new apartment and our old apartment pretty much looks the same as it always does, which means we’ve got our work cut out for us. I’ve traded some baby sitting hours with a neighbour mommy friend of mine, so I get to hand off Ash tomorrow during a German mommy playdate of hers so that Clive and I can pack without a curious 14 month old taking out everything that we put into boxes. We’ve rented a U-Haul truck for Sunday and that’ll be a long and tiring day, but it’ll be nice to be somewhere new, I guess.

Today I checked the mail for the last time at this place, and admittedly I got a little teared up. This is where we brought Ash home from the hospital, where we spent the first near 15 months of his life, where we’ve called home as a family. Even though I know it’s too small and uncomfortable to live here any longer, I am pretty sad to go. That being said, Ash and I spent some time in our new back yard today while he played with the snow that’s left on the ground after last week’s snowstorm (which easily dumped a foot+ of snow on the ground in less than 24 hours) while I raked up autumn leaves and pulled fake flowers out of the old flowerbed. Interesting choice in gardening.

My mom and I went to a gardening store here in Halifax this week and she bought me a dozen tulip bulbs that I’ll plant this weekend- my first time ever. Seeing that backyard and its potential for barbques, gardening and afternoons spent bubble blowing and searching for bugs makes me feel really optimistic about this move, regardless of how expensive it is.

4 Responses to "My son is so smart"

1 | Natalie

November 29th, 2008 at 5:02 am

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I have missed the big hoo-hah with regards to the CIO issue, but I was linked to your blog from Twwly’s, and just wanted to voice my support for you. I am a relatively new mama (my daughter is 4 months) but we are attachment parenting and totally agree with all the things you have said.

My sister had a baby who is 8 weeks younger than my daughter and their parenting styles couldn’t be further from ours. They’re bottle feeding, CIO, getting annoyed that she ‘still’ doesn’t sleep through, etc. I find it very hard to talk about how I am raising my daughter as I find myself feeling belittled and unable to eloquently explain why we do what we do. Somehow they are allowed to insult what we are doing, to tell me that the things I am doing will harm my child’s development (e.g they say co-sleeping will make her clingy). And yet I am not allowed to answer them back because they just think I am talking out of my ass.

Your blogs have given me some more food for thought and some more ways to help explain AP. I know that I do not need to justify my decision to anybody, as the big reward is in seeing my happy and healthy baby girl, but it is hard to have a family who just do not understand why I am doing what I am doing.

So, I apologise that this appears to be random but I did feel like I needed to say something and not just lurk forever.

2 | Asheo

November 29th, 2008 at 11:21 am

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That is the cutest video ever!

3 | typealice

November 29th, 2008 at 12:40 pm

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Natalie: I agree that it’s hard to explain differing parenting choices to people who don’t believe it. I’m sure it’s hard for your sister to explain why she’s doing what she’s decided is the best method too. My only suggestion is to explain why you’re doing things the way you’re doing, and not tell other people they’re doing it wrong because they’ll immediately shut up and get defensive. ie) Twwly’s latest cloth diapering post is written in a VERY smart way. She doesn’t say anything negative about people who use disposibles, she just outlines why she chooses to CD. I need to follow her lead a bit more in that arena! ;)

4 | Angellee

November 29th, 2008 at 7:36 pm

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The fake flowers reminds of me what my family did while trying to sell my grandma’s house. I have no idea why my mom thought putting fake flowers in the ground was a good idea.

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I'm Gillian, a world-traveller turned natural parent. I believe in primal parenting; breastfeeding, baby wearing, cosleeping, cloth diapering, elimination communication, vegetarianism and all things natural. I have very strong parenting views. There's nothing better in my life than my days with my kid. Also: sushi and sweet white wine, skinny jeans and black tshirts, torrents and sugar.

My sustainable accessories company Pip Robins keeps me busy in the evenings.